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Autism: Year 10 in Review
2011 was a good year. Connor, now ten and a half years old, is becoming quite the accomplished young gentleman. He attended fifth grade in a general ed classroom without a para or teacher’s assistant. He completed… -
Five things I’ve learned about parenting an autistic child
Autism is still a mystery to me, but I’ve learned a few things over the last ten years (and no doubt there will be more of these in the next ten years). Here’s a few of my lessons-learned. What are yours? -
"Mom, Will I Outgrow Autism?"
“Mom, will I outgrow autism?” “Son, I don’t know. Some doctors say autism lasts a lifetime; others say some kids do outgrow it. I hope both are correct. I hope you learn how to handle the thing… -
Importance of Advocacy Training
Advocacy is good for our kids, but many of didn’t realize that it is good for parents, too. A new study completed by doctoral student Michelle Reynolds for the University of Missouri cites that parents who take ad… -
Rewards Program for Children with Autism
Do you remember getting presents or special privileges for making good grades in school? If so, do you remember how proud you were when your hard work paid off? Me, too, which is why I was so excited when Connor&rsquo… -
How should we advise our state legislators on Autism Policy?
We are excited to participate in a pilot program sponsored by our local Arc chapter where we will be hosting a small group of parents, self-advocates and local legislators. The purpose of the meeting is to share our ex… -
The spectrum of autism parenting
We all go through those times where we either a) defer decision-making to the experts or b) come to an IEP meeting with both barrels loaded, ready to fight to the death for our kids. What we often forget is that rais… -
Autism: Restoring a mom's trust in public schools
I’m afraid to believe that my son’s 4th grade in his new school is going so well. Connor is in a gen ed class 93% of the time; he is making As and Bs (albeit with modified programs for reading and writing);… -
When Parents Lose Their Way
Losing our way as parents happens. Typically, it begins with the nagging doubt that we aren’t doing something quite right, but we cannot for the life of us figure out what it is. Sometimes the realization… -
Dangerous Camparisons
‘Comparison, a great teacher told me, is the cardinal sin of modern life. It traps us in a game we can’t win. Once we define ourselves in terms of others we lose the freedom to shape our own lives.’ Ji…

