Sunday, 20 February 2011
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A "thing" for numbers

My son has a thing about numbers. I mean, he REALLY has a thing about numbers.
This fascination manifested itself from a relatively early age. When Kai first started saying a few words, we found out that he sees numbers everywhere. For instance, he would pick up a fallen tree branch and say “seven.” It sometimes would take us a little while to understand what he was talking about, but eventually we saw that the shape of the branch did look like the number seven if you held it a certain way. Likewise, he would look at a paper towel hanging down off its roll and see the number 9.
When he was four, we found out that he had memorized the exit numbers of many every places he had been, even those where he only went once, a year previous.
Since he loves numbers, it is no big surprise that he has quite an affinity for math. After he learned addition and subtraction at age three, he kept asking us, just for fun, to create addition and subtraction problems for him using two and three digit numbers. Shortly after he turned five, he found a book at our local public library that had multiplication tables in it. He asked me to explain them and, after one session of using beans and cups, he learned multiplication. He also might have been the only kid in his kindergarten class last year who knew how to do a little bit of division.
Earlier this year, he became very interested in the fifty states. But, even there, numbers factored into it. In just a couple of days, Kai learned the order in which the states entered the union. Many people know that Hawaii was the 50th state. But, how many know that Delaware was the first? Or, that Virginia was the tenth and Oklahoma was 46th? Kai could tell you.
Just before his sixth birthday, he drew a map of the United States all on his own. But, instead of writing in the names of all of the states, he wrote a number for every state that represented the order in which they joined the U.S. I had to look up the statistics online to check it out, and found out that he had it all correct.
Nowadays he is really into planets. As such, of course he can tell you their order from the sun. But, he also knows that Jupiter has 63 moons and that Mercury has none. I didn't know that until he told me.
We sometimes try to use his love of numbers to our advantage. For instance, back when he was a pickier eater, we motivated him to eat his gluten-free chicken nuggets by having Mom teach him how to say a different number in Japanese after every bite. While most kids love chicken nuggets, that was one of the few times back then that he ate his dinner readily. Now, if you ask him how to say eight hundred in Japanese, he will gladly tell you.
Last weekend, my wife and I got to play Frisbee golf for the first time by telling Kai that every hole has a different number. He liked the order in going from hole to hole, as we went around the nine-hole course. And, now that my wife told him that a regular golf course has 18 holes, he can’t wait to try that, too, someday.
I don’t know where this love of numbers will take him. At times, we have been concerned that he is so obsessed with numbers to such a degree that it hinders his social and emotional development. So, is he a potential NASA engineer? Or, someone cannot get past the numbers and function well in the real world?
One of our challenges as parents is to figure out how to channel his talents.
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Comments (7)
This is a bit late, I suppose, but did you ever watch the show Numb3rs?
It's about a man who solves crimes by using math and the number systems behind it. It takes a true LOVE of numbers, and very high intelligence to do something like this, but if you and your wife keep encouraging your son's love of numbers and math, this kind of thing could be a job option for him. Just a thought. :)I did see Numb3rs when it first came out, but your mentioning it makes me want to see if I can still find some old episodes. I'm sure I'd have a whole new appreciation of it with the perspective of my son's passion for numbers. It would be very cool if he could eventually find a job like that! Right now, we're just hoping that he will be able to use his skills in a productive way. Thanks for the thought!
I think all of the seasons of Numb3rs are now out on DVD.
@janusfiles@xanga - Okay, thanks. I will look for them.
This weekend, my son was bored. Rather than play with toys or games, he wanted to do math. He ended up learning about prime factorization. Read the story on my blog...
http://hanabiboy.blogspot.com/2011/02/toys-games-math.html
Thanks for sharing about your son's passion for numbers. Kai is lucky to have parents like you who go along with his interests and your last sentence tells it all: "One of our challenges as parents is to figure out how to channel his talents."
@LornadEnt - Thank you so much, Lorna!