Monday, 21 September 2009

  • Griffin: the One, the Only, the Not-to-be-Copied

    The five-year-old has turned from the spitting, screaming, biting that got him euphemistically categorized as a “spirited” toddler into a bright, loving, bouncy Kindergartener. I adore him. Really. It’s just so lovely to see the transformation in him. Not that he still can’t be ridiculously stubborn and demanding sometimes, but it does not define him anymore.

    He has this lovely habit of coming up to me–unprompted–and saying:

    I love you Mom, so much.

    My heart melts and I give him a big, don’t grow up too soon my baby, hug.

    The other night we were having our ritual bedtime snuggle in the big chair. The television was on, and someone on the show said

    I love you so much Mom. 

    Immediately, I felt his little spine straighten, and with just a hint of righteous indignation he declared.

    Hey! That’s what I say!

    He was silent for a few moments except for the whir and clunk of the gears inside his brain.

    I awaited the results of his calculating.

    And then he looked at me:

    I love you Mom…greatly.

    A true original, my Griffin.

    What do you think? Future screenwriter? Copyright lawyer? Patent clerk?


Comments (3)

  • MansEtManus@xanga

    Haha, that's adorable. :] You're son seems like a true sweetheart.


    I'm thinking screenwriter. No one wants to hear actors repeating the same words all the time, this skill of his could come in very handy! :D

  • the_kcar

    Unrelated, but my eldest son, who happens to have ADHD, had a similar "aww-inspiring" moment. At the age of perhaps 2 or 3, I had dropped the kids at a daycare and was heading out to work. I gave my kids a kiss on the cheek, lipstick and all. I caught sight of my son wiping his cheek, and I joked, "So - you're wiping my kiss off you?"

    In all sweet-seriousness, he rose his eyebrows, looked up at me [still smearing his hand over the lipstick-print] and said, shaking his head gently, "Rub in...", grinned, then scooted off to go play.

    Moments to make a Mom squish...nowadays, he's a teen, and has already a loyal female following.

    As to your question: perhaps he'll wind up a lyricist...writers have a habit of not only trying to select original statements, but also surgically accurate words for maximum impact.

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